by Susie and Otto Collins

The biggest romantic "turn-on" for us is when we feel a strong connection with each other. The smallest things can create that connection and then turn into a special romantic feeling for each other.

Here are a couple of things that have happened recently that will help you to understand what we mean...

Susie's mother has severe dementia, able to respond and interact with us on a very limited basis, and is in a nursing home. She and Otto were never really able to get to know one another because she already had dementia when he came into Susie's family. So any mutual love that might have been there, never had a chance to develop.

The other day, when Susie visited her mom, Otto went with her. Believe it or not, as he gave Susie's mom a lot of attention and love, inadvertently he was also creating a deeper connection with Susie.

What this kind of connection does is create a lot of trust, which in turn, allows both people to open to allowing and wanting more romance with each other.

Here's another example of what we're talking about...

The other evening, Otto was running errands and was a lot later than he usually is. He took a moment to find a phone and call Susie to let her know where he was and when he'd be home.

Now, he could look at this as a chore and something that he "had" to do or he could look at it as an act of love and respect that will bring us closer.

Something as small as one phone call, coupled with the intention to bring us closer, does create a closer connection between us and in turn, more romance.

If you still aren't convinced, try it yourself and find out. Do some small act of love and kindness from your heart and discover how you can strengthen your connection. As your connection grows, so will your romance.

We urge you to give it a try!

Relationship coaches Susie and Otto Collins, authors of "Red Hot Love Relationships," invite you to visit http://www.redhotloverelationships.com
to learn how you can bring more passion into your relationship.